– A Thought Catered from reading “They Call it Love” (Alva Gotby) Growing up, I wondered why women are expected to labour emotionally. Why are men entitled to sex, care, and nurture from women but not so much the other way around? Why does it only matter for women to fulfill their emotional spheres and that those outside this region are … More Can we – I – become heterosexual feminists (s) who refuse to conform to “gendered emotions?”